Often we 'love' someone quite deeply but are unable to express our thoughts and feelings. At times we may even spoil our relationship over something quite trivial because of our inability to communicate appropriately.
| Encourage the other to open up without fear of your reaction. A good and healthy communication is the first step towards a better relationship.
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| Be a good listener. Respect the other's point of view.
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| Compliment and encourage each other sincerely. If you highlight each other's strengths, then both of you will feel 'Special' and 'Wanted' by the other.
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| Avoid any mind or psychological games between the two of you.
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| Do not repeat your mistakes. Learn from each mistake. There are times wherein you don't get many chances. Observe and read the reactions of your partner.
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| Your tone, your glance, your response to stimuli, the care you take, the understanding you share, the quality of jokes you crack or choose to laugh at are often secretly understood and conclusions of your true self driven out.
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| Avoid incubation of sex. It hinders solid communication and affects in many adverse ways.
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| Keep knowledge updates. Learn and study a lot. Introduce surprise elements. Risk a step more than your mind permits, reflect some persona, become something if at all you want to be loved.
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| Each one has weaknesses. But if you magnify each issue and quarrel over them, then your relationship is heading down.
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| If you want to be loved, maintain a reserve of personality. Be strange at times.
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| Do something exciting and adventurous together. This can be real fun and will bring the two of you real close. It also breaks the monotony of togetherness.
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| Females are generally romantic and love to receive bouquets of flowers or surprises.
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| Keep your partner informed about what's going around in your life. It helps in developing intimacy and keeps the communication level and depth of understanding high.
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| Take interest in each other's hobbies and extra curricular activities. Share them with each other if possible.
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| Give each other enough space to grow. Let not jealousy, possessiveness and other trivial cramp your relationship.
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| Kick your nagging habit. It reveals the way you've been brought up. Truly independent people do not nag. It only runs the risk of smothering a relationship.
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A pat on your back for your positive thoughts! Your interest and thoughtfulness reveal that you are truly in love and want to give the best shot to the relationship!
